Stoic empathy might seem like a paradox—combining the rigidity of stoicism with the compassion of empathy. In reality, however, they’re not opposing forces but symbiotic companions on the journey of self-discovery and influence. Used together, they are guiding principles that become the bedrock of personal empowerment and societal change.
This talk navigates combining the fortitude and inner control of stoicism with the deep understanding and connection fostered by empathy, to build a transformative framework that help us discern what is within our control, to modulate our emotions, and to act ethically at all times.
Shermin Kruse Biography
Shermin Kruse is an author, global transactions expert, lawyer, board advisor, speaker, professor, TEDx producer, and idea curator. She currently teaches global transactions, tactical empathy, complex negotiation, and leadership at Northwestern Pritzker School of Law.
She is the author of the textbook Global Transactions and Regulation: Political, Legal, and Cultural Frameworks, published by Northwestern University Library, which examines current and relevant business, legal, regulatory, and ethical issues arising from commercial transactions across national borders. Her critically acclaimed, best-selling novel, Butterfly Stitching, was inspired by the true experiences of herself and the women in her family before and after the Iranian revolution. In addition to her teaching and corporate negotiations experience, Shermin was a partner at the law firm of Barack Ferrazzano, where she represented international and Fortune 500 companies for 17 years. Her nearly two-decade-long legal practice provided her with in-depth knowledge of corporate business management, high-stakes negotiations, and complex cross-border transactions.
Shermin’s passion for stoic empathy stems from her belief that it is not merely an intellectual exercise but a guiding principle that, when embraced fully, fosters both personal empowerment and meaningful societal change. Through her personal experiences of overcoming childhood oppression, war, teenage bullying, and climbing the corporate ladder, she has unearthed the profound synergy between stoicism and empathy. Her work serves as a roadmap for navigating life’s challenges with grace, resilience, and compassion, aiming to provide practical tools for fostering deeper connections and wielding influence ethically.